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Emile Roy and Angeline Hogue (courting years) c.1936 |
The following excerpts are drawn from
the 1994 book Nootsie, The Life of Ernest
Emile Roy (1914-1992) written by J. Paul-Emile Roy, CA. This is Part Two. Read
more in Part One.
According to Angeline, Christmas time for the Hogue children
meant a special treat of bananas and oranges. Each child could look forward to
getting them in their Christmas stockings, along with a few pennies. These were
not your typical stockings but huge long woollen socks - 17 of them. Christmas
was also a time to receive their father's blessing and have fun. There were no radios
or movie theatres back then but the Hogues had a Victrola machine on which they would
play records. Several of the children also played musical instruments.
In 1932, the Hogue family settled in Jogues and Emile Roy
became friends with the Hogue boys. Within two years, he began courting
Angeline. In the beginning, Emile would occasionally come to the post office to
pick up parcels and would “sneak a look” at Angeline whenever he was there. He
bought her a special present for Christmas in 1935. It was a watch with the
year and their initials “AH 1935 ER” inscribed on the back. During their
courtship, they exchanged greetings for Valentine's Day, Christmas and other
occasions.
On their dates, Emile and Angeline shared many precious
moments. She noted that, “It didn't take much to please a person in those
times.” They would hold hands and Emile would whisper “sweet nothings” in her
ear. Even though his feet were planted firmly in the present, he would talk
about his plans, hopes and dreams. And, he would explain his ideas for making
his dreams come true.
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Angeline and Emile wed in 1937 |
Emile was eager to get married but Angeline was not. Having
shared a house with many brothers and sisters, she wanted her own place to live
in and was willing to wait for it. So Emile figured, if that was the case, then
he would make sure that she had a house. When Emile asked if it would be okay
to build a house on part of his father’s property, the response was “Sure, you
can build a house on that piece of land across the other side of the river. If
you build there, the land is yours.” The house was nearly finished when
Angeline and Emile got married in August 1937. It needed a number of finishing
touches, however, such as tiles for the kitchen floor. But, after the nurses
had given Angeline a shower, they had pretty much everything they needed to get
started.
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Emile and Angeline 50th anniversary in 1987 |
On her journey through life, Angeline was never alone. She
always had her family at heart. There were many landmarks on that journey. Some
were triumphs and some were tragedies. They are worth telling and remembering. After
all, she was special, my mom!
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